You’re probably thinking, how in the world can I possibly relax on my wedding day? There’s going to be so much going on, and everything’s got to be perfect. But having a stress-free day is possible! The last weeks leading up to your wedding may be crazy-busy, but in just a few minutes you can put four tips to use to make your day run a little smoother.

1. Designate Tasks

While you should be designating tasks throughout your wedding preparations, it’s especially important to do for your wedding day. Do you have someone to carry your wrap or purse while you take pictures? Who has your water bottle? Will there be someone to escort Grandma to her chair? Before the rehearsal, make a list of everything that will need to happen on your special day. At the rehearsal, ask for volunteers among the bridal party to take on different tasks.

2. Create a Schedule

You definitely want to avoid having to rush on your wedding day. You also want to make sure everyone from the best man to the flower girl is in the right place at the right time. Creating a schedule will help alleviate confusion, prepare people for their roles and help keep things running smoothly and on time throughout the day. Test out your schedule during your rehearsal to make sure there really is enough time for everything you want to cover. Make adjustments as necessary and email the most recent version to your bridal party that evening. Remember to leave a little wiggle room as incidents will inevitably come up that you didn’t anticipate.

3. Eat, Drink & Be Merry (and make sure your family does, too!)

We’ve all heard the horror stories about the bride or groom’s mother or father who has to be rushed to the hospital because of dehydration just minutes before the ceremony. Don’t let that happen on your wedding day. Drinking enough water is essential, especially if your wedding is in the summer. Keep a cooler stocked with a few bottles of water for the bridal party nearby at all times. You should also make sure to have a complete breakfast even if you’ve got a bad case of stomach butterflies. Breakfast might be the only meal you have until dinner. Eating a healthy meal such as oatmeal, fruit or eggs will give you energy for the day as well as keep your head clear and your mind focused. If possible have a light snack like a protein bar or an apple in the afternoon to stay energized.

4. Take Pictures First

Maximize the amount of time you spend with guests during the reception by taking most of your photos before the ceremony. If you can’t take your photos before the ceremony, make arrangements ahead of time with your bridal party, family and friends who will be in your formal pictures. Tell people where they need to be and when to reduce confusion and the amount of time you spend looking for those people. This means you won’t have to spend your entire cocktail hour in front of the camera and will leave more time for mingling with your guests.

Your wedding day is one of the most important events of your life, so don’t let all of the details cause you anxiety. Make the most of your day, have fun and remember that the wedding isn’t about the party, the guests or the flowers – it’s about creating a special bond between you and the person you love. Use these four tips to help keep the stress at bay so that you can have a wonderful time.